Why some middle-class and upper-middle class families pay close to nothing for their kids college education?

How to send your child to an expensive private university for less than a state school?
 

How to lower your "out-of-pocket" costs and  get the maximum amount of money from the schools you choose?

How to fill out the complicated FAFSA and college application forms on time and 100? accurate?
 

How to locate and apply for every needs based scholarship, grant, and low-interest loan that your child may be eligible for?

How to completely finance your childs education even if you don't qualify for "need-based" aid?

How to pick the colleges that will give you the most free money (meaning less loans) - This means you don't have to waste your time applying to schools that will only end up giving you less than ideal award packages?